Fake Friends: The Ones Who Smile But Sting💔

Thank you soooooooooo much for the 64 views on my first post!💗  It truly made my day and gave me the confidence to keep writing. If you ever want to share a thought, ask for advice, or just talk, you can message me anytiime on my Snapchat my username is The Teen Bloom.

 Today, we 're talking about fake friends. The one's who smile at you but talk behimd your back, who disappear when you need them, and who make you question your worth. Let's get into it.

 

👀What fake friends look like:

·         They are only around when they need something

·         They make you feel left out, even when you are included.

·         They turn others against you silently.

·         They compete with you instead of clapping for you.

·         They call you “too sensitive” when you feel hurt.

 

💬A story of a bloomier :

“I had a friend who made me feel invisible around others.   She’d act like I was annoying or boring in front of people, but when we were alone, she’d be kind again.

I kept wondering if I was a problem.  But deep down, I knew real friends don’t treat you like that.

Letting go of her was hard… but choosing myself felt so much better.

 

How it affects you: Being around fake friends can slowly destroy your confidence. You start thinking maybe you deserve yo be treated that way. But let me tell you : You don’t!

 

🛑What you can do: 

Don't feel guilty for walking away. 

You are allowed to say I deserve better. 

Protect your energy. 

Talk to someone who really listens ... even me💌

Remember:Real friendship never feels like a battle 

💗Final message: 

If you've beem hurt by fake friends, you're not weak you are growing. You are learning what love isn't, so one day you'll know what real friendship feels like. You're not alone in this. I've been there and I'll be here every Sunday to talk more...just us teen to teen.🌷

📑Next topic ideas? 

Message me on Snapchat: The Teen Bloom and let me know what you want me to write about next Sunday 

With love, 

Bloomie❣️